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Safety Guide
SAFE / DATEby
Before Match Safety
Setting your boundaries & protecting your identity before the first swipe
Topics in this guide
Identity & Profile Shielding
Avoid sharing full names, employers, or specific neighborhood details in your public dating bio.
Key Red Flags & Warning Signs
- !Profile images showing your workplace ID badge or home front door.
- !Linking personal social media accounts (Instagram, LinkedIn) with full contact details.
- !Using your primary phone number for app verification.
Real-World Example Scenario
"Maya used her work email prefix as her dating username. A match easily found her LinkedIn profile, work office, and direct phone number before they even exchanged a single message."
Recommended Action Plan
- 01Use unique photos on dating apps that are not published on your public Instagram or LinkedIn.
- 02Use a secondary phone number app (e.g. Google Voice or Burner) for early texting.
- 03Remove workplace logos or recognizable local spots from your bio images.
Proactive Safety Habits
- Audit your bio with a friend's eyes to catch unintentional location clues.
- Keep early chats strictly inside the dating app until trust is built.
STAY INFORMED
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