discourtesy has 5 distinct synonyms spread across 3 of its 3 senses. Each sense below keeps its own list, because a synonym belongs to a meaning and not to a word: swapping one sense's substitute into another sense's sentence is how a thesaurus makes writing worse. Its one recorded opposite is courtesy.
Counts are distinct word forms across every sense. A synonym that appears under three senses is counted once here and shown three times below, under each sense it belongs to.
an expression of lack of respect
a manner that is rude and insulting
a lack of politeness; a failure to show regard for others; wounding the feelings or others
Synonyms, antonyms and the broader and narrower relations for discourtesy come from Princeton University’s WordNet. Full sources and licences.