WordNet records no synonym and no antonym for red-letter day. It is the only member of its synset, which is common for technical, taxonomic and single-sense vocabulary — there is no other English word that means the same thing. The broader and narrower terms below are the useful relations in that case.
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a memorably happy or noteworthy day (from the custom of marking holy days in red on church calendars)
Synonyms, antonyms and the broader and narrower relations for red-letter day come from Princeton University’s WordNet. Full sources and licences.