SoloHearts is a warm, down-to-earth place for single parents to meet other adults who get the school runs, the sitters and the last-minute changes. Move at your own pace — nothing here promises a match, just a kinder way to try.
SoloHearts is for adults 18 and older and is an independent demo. We don’t promise dates, matches or relationships — every experience is different.
Give us one email address and we’ll send a free, no-pressure guide: making time for yourself, easy first messages, meeting safely, and the big question of if and when kids come into it. Plus the occasional friendly update. That’s it.
Figures describe the SoloHearts demo, not results. We don’t promise matches, dates or relationships — those depend on people, timing and chemistry, and vary from one person to the next.
Being a single parent changes what dating looks like — the timing, the priorities, and the people who actually get it. Here is how SoloHearts leans into that instead of pretending it isn’t true.
How it's differentMost members are parents too, so “I can only chat after bedtime” is not strange here — it is normal. You meet other adults who already understand nap times, hand-offs and the last-minute cancel.
Everyday momentsThe goal is a relaxed, real conversation — a weekday coffee, a morning walk — not a whirlwind. Slow is welcome, and nobody is ever pushed to move faster than they want to.
Made for youThis is a space for you as a whole person, not only as a parent. Your kids stay yours; SoloHearts is about the grown-up side of your life, entirely on your terms.
A calmer laneA relationship-minded community with a kind tone — not a hookup app. We ask members to be genuine and considerate, and to treat single parents with the respect the moment deserves.
Photos are illustrative stock images shown for demonstration and do not depict real members. SoloHearts is family-aware and adult-focused, and is for adults 18 and older.
Four unhurried steps, from “maybe I’ll try” to a coffee that actually fits your week. Scroll — the little hello follows along.
It takes a few minutes — build it during a nap or after bedtime. Mention that you are a parent if you like; plenty of members do. There is no pressure to be anyone but yourself.
We help you find other adults who get school runs, sitters and sudden changes of plan. You choose who to talk to and when — nobody is pushed on you, and a quiet week is perfectly fine.
Chat first, then meet somewhere public and low-key whenever it actually works — a weekday coffee, a park walk. Take it slowly; there is no clock here and no way you are “supposed” to do this.
Whether your kids ever meet someone you are dating is a big, personal decision with no timeline and no promises. If you get there, we share gentle guidance — but the choice is always, only yours. Every family is different.
There is no schedule for this and no single right answer. A few gentle things single parents tell us helped — shared as information, never as a rule, and never as a promise about how things will turn out.
Weeks, months, a year — many parents wait a long while, and plenty never blend households at all. Waiting is not “behind.” Whatever pace feels steady to you is the right one.
Lots of parents keep new dating and home life apart until things feel solid. Your kids do not need to meet everyone you have coffee with, and there is nothing to explain.
If you do introduce someone, parents often start small: a park, an ice-cream stop — something short and casual, with an easy exit for everyone. No big reveal required.
Kids set their own pace too. Checking in and letting them feel however they feel tends to matter more than any “perfect” moment. You know your children best.
This is general information for adults, not advice about your specific family, and not a promise of any outcome. Every child and situation is different — you know yours best.
A reputable place to meet people should make the careful choice the easy one. Here is how we try — plus a few date-smart habits worth keeping whoever you meet.
First meetings go best somewhere public and familiar. Tell a friend your plans, arrange your own way there and back, and leave whenever you like — you never owe anyone an explanation.
We ask members to be who they say they are and to keep things kind. SoloHearts is for genuine connection — it is not a hookup app, and behavior that crosses the line gets removed.
Keep your last name, address, workplace and anything about your children private until trust is earned. You never have to hand over those details to keep a conversation going.
Blocking and reporting are always a tap away, and a real person reviews what is flagged. Trust your gut — if something feels wrong, that alone is reason enough to stop.
SoloHearts is for adults 18 and older. On this page we ask for an email and nothing sensitive — no passwords, no payment details, and nothing about your children. Please date safely; you know your situation best.
Composite stories from single parents, shown for illustration. They are not real individuals, and no result — a match, a date or a relationship — is promised or implied. Experiences vary.
I almost did not sign up — who has the time? But the profile took one nap-time, and nobody minded that I could only message after the kids were down. It felt built for how my week actually runs.
What I liked was that it never rushed me. I read the emails for a couple of months before I met anyone for coffee, and that was completely normal here. Slow was allowed.
The safety reminders were the part I needed. Meet in public, keep the kids out of it early, tell a friend where you will be — simple, but it is exactly what made me feel okay giving it a try.
The same free starter guide, one email field, no strings and no promises. Read it for a while before you ever message anyone — that is a perfectly good way to use SoloHearts.
Questions first? Our Member Care team is real people — call (877) 555-0148. No script, no pressure.
